Hello and welcome to our Blog! We are Damian and Susan Ponder and we have been married 25 years. And even with the odds stacked against us from the beginning, we continually pressed in and have overcome every obstacle together. This is our journey of enlightenment, healing and growth through rope, BDSM, food, herb and meditation. We hope to inspire and encourage other couples in the importance of communication and trust. Follow along for real and raw daily blog posts of Transparency, healing, BDSM and growth, with some silliness and life hacks thrown in along the way. Feel free to reach out for any reason. We are here to uplift with positivity and hope.