BDSM

Bdsm s/m

Sadists. Masochists

Oh yummy! Spanking and bitting, whipping and scratching….another favorite! And another fit roll as I am deff a sadist, with minimal masochist preference and Damian is my twin flame opposite! I appreciate a nice rope burn or bite mark, but I adore marking up his body! Damian is tender and passionate so for him, to inflict pain on me would be torture, but wow does he welcome it….even beg.

I have never been a physically violent person. Same goes for Damian. But I have seen him throw down If called for and, WOW…it was hot! I’ve also never taken a physical beating, so I can’t say what is felt in the moments during a square up. But at night, during play time? The feelings that go through me are incredible! It’s like, who could ever love me soooo much that he would allow me to inflict such physical pain and even enjoy it!? And why do I enjoy inflicting that harsh pain? Cause he enjoys it! Its the perfect circle of pain to pleasure. But I could imagine the sick pleasure one takes when engaging in a non consensual setting and that saddens me.

Being that we have 5 adult children ages 17-26 living at home, impact play is usually kept to a minimum and mostly kept to scratching, nibbling (since biting is a no-no) canning and chocking. But some nights we bust out the paddles and crops and ohhh.its.on. I follow a lot of BDSM IG accounts and you see butts that are so bruised up!!!! Like how do I do that? I feel like I’m swatting Damian pretty hard but seldom a bruise. He has even asked “that’s it?” A time or 2! That’s Hot. I do lack upper arm strength I will work on that.

For me I prefer my pain in ropes and a super hard slamming! Like break me in half type of rough rowdy sex. And though we love our toys and accessories, I prefer all him! There is nothing like the real thing in my opinion and we usually don’t use toys on me. Although Tuesday night, high as hell, was pretty dang phenomenal. Another bonus to cannabis….BDSM sex is so much sexier. Vanilla too my, traditional readers! A whole other level!

So that’s where we are on our journey into the BDSM structure so far! 2 thumbs way, way up for all the positives and healing we have encountered this far. We will continue to share our ups and downs along the way, as we continue to press in and increase our passions for one another.

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